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Choosing a secondary school
Legal Considerations
Sometimes, despite best efforts in mediation, parents may still find themselves at an
impasse. In such cases, it might be necessary to seek legal advice. Family law professionals
can offer guidance on how to proceed, potentially involving the court to make a decision in
the best interest of the child.
The Role of the Court
Courts are generally considered a last resort, but they can provide a definitive resolution.
When making a decision, the court will consider various factors including the child’s welfare,
academic needs, and any expressed preferences from the child, if they are of an appropriate
age and maturity.
Practical Steps for Parents
- Communicate Clearly: Open, honest communication is essential. Try to set aside
personal differences and focus on what is best for the child. - List Priorities: Both parents should list their priorities and concerns regarding the choice
of school. This can help identify common ground and areas for compromise. - Visit Schools: Whenever possible, both parents should visit potential schools together.
This provides a shared experience and a basis for discussion. - Involve the Child: Depending on the child’s age and maturity, consider involving them in
the decision-making process. Their perspective can be invaluable. - Seek Professional Help Early: Don’t wait until the last minute to seek help. Early
intervention by a mediator or legal professional can prevent the situation from
Conclusion
Choosing a secondary school is a significant decision that can shape a child’s future. For
separated parents, this decision can be even more challenging. However, with the right
approach and professional support, it is possible to reach an agreement that serves the best
interests of the child. Remember, the ultimate goal is to ensure a stable, supportive, and
enriching educational environment for your child’s growth and development..